According to self-proclaimed Love doctor ‘Joro Olumofin’, he has come up with a list of things men must not do when going on a first date with a new woman and to be honest with you I quite agree with most of the things he said except one.
I totally disagree with No. 14, "After the first sex always call as a courtesy (whether the sex was good or bad).
In the first place, why must sex come into the equation. This is a very wrong mindset that makes guys sees ladies as sex object first before anything else. Why must there be sex on a first date or even during the date at all? This is the same reason why guys become more focus on sex in a relationship than making the relationship work.
This is the same mindset that made one of our so called Celebrities said, "First sex is an interview, if you pass, you will be called back,". This is how bad we are influencing our singles. Must sex come to play!
A smart guy doesn't need to be told that a girl that allow you to have sex with her on a first date or even on the 5th date is a careless girl because this same girl will come to the social media to call guys different names once the guy break up with her.
As a matter of fact, this should tell you that such girls should not be considered for marriage because obviously they still have a lot to learn. How many guys will she sleep with on 1st or 2nd date except if she believes that no other guy will ever ask you out.
More guys will ask you out and what you are telling me is that that's how you will be sleeping with everyone one of them just because one 'Love Doctor' said there's nothing wrong with sex on 1st date. I totally disagree!
I will never advise any guy to consider a girl that sleeps with you on first or fifth date except if you want to marry a careless girl or loose girl because if she can allow you easily like that imagine how many others she would have allowed!
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